Your 2023 Time To Climb Scholarship Winner Announced!
YOUR TIME TO CLIMB SCHOLARSHIP HAS ENDED
Warmest Congratulations to Our Scholarship Winner Abigail V.!
The personal injury attorneys at Tenge Law Firm, LLC, are excited to present the winner of our annual Your Time to Climb Scholarship. We couldn’t be happier with the quality of entries we received, and we believe many of our applicants are headed for bigger, better things. The difficulty with this type of competition is choosing only one winner, but the college-bound student below impressed us so much that we had no qualms in awarding them the overall prize – $1,000 for educational expenses.
Congratulations to all!
2023 Winning Entry
Congratulations Abigail V on winning our 2023 Time To Climb Scholarship! We will contact you for additional details. Thank you again to all who applied it was truly inspiring to read all of the entries.
“Perfection. Ever since I was five, perfection has been my ultimate goal. It wasn’t ideology methodically implemented in me by my parents who wanted to guide me to success, but the evil-doing of my t-shirt at the time that read Soy perfecta (I’m perfect). It was a bright yellow shirt, with text that was outlined in pink, my favorite color at the time. In elementary school, I tried my best to be the nicest, even if it meant developing people-pleasing behavior. Eventually, this goal led to a perpetual cycle of overexertion. I needed to uphold the promise I had made to myself on behalf of an eight-dollar shirt.
Though I have many elaborate experiences regarding my perfectionism, junior year, which was also my first year back in in-person school since I was 13 years old, was by far my best performance. This was also my first year back in in-person school since I was 13 years old. I knew I had to outdo my sophomore, freshman, middle school, and elementary school self, I had no other option. In the process of achieving this goal, I lost sight of critical aspects of life, which I eventually paid for. The experience guided me to learn the importance of balance and graciousness, specifically toward myself.
During my Junior year, I exerted more energy than I had. I started on the wrong foot by compromising the most precious joy in life: sleep. I was up until 2 a.m. every day completing essays, studying for quizzes, and catching up on readings. Though I have always been fond of naps, I found myself unintentionally dozing off in my candid life. Embarrassingly, the most popular time for me to snooze was in my first period, Algebra II. Along with my sleepiness, I eventually reduced my time for recreation. Being on top of studies, chores, and just about everything left no room for leisure beyond screen time. This made me irritable and overall dissatisfied with myself. I was so utterly occupied by my goal of academic success that I continued to torture myself by reducing my intake of food and water. During this period, it felt like a waste of time, leading to my malnourishment. It didn’t help that I also had a stomach virus that significantly reduced my appetite. Despite this agony, and many trips to the doctor, my work did eventually pay off.
Not only did I get a grade average of 97%, but I also climbed into the top 15 percent of my class. I felt victorious, as though everything I put myself through was worth it. I was one step closer to being perfect, and all it took was to ignore my inevitable needs. I was not only falling short on my physical necessities, but I was also ignoring my mental well-being. While I had the highest grade point average I’d ever achieved in my high school career, I also had the most panic attacks, depressive episodes, and conflict. I was never socially at 100%, which impaired my ability to connect with others. I found that the only interaction I had with my own family was telling them good morning and good night. Though I inflicted this two-dimensional dynamic with them, I couldn’t help but feel unimportant to them. I grew a dangerous tolerance for such a painful routine. I needed a solution, though I didn’t know it yet, I had to have limitations and stop compromising my stability for “perfection”. With genuine effort, and another genre of outdoing myself, I eventually began to heal. I reached out for help before my junior year was over when I experienced a dangerously fitful panic attack. While it was overwhelming, I rediscovered something when I saw the pure fear and concern in my mother’s face as I trembled in disarray, and it was that I was loved. I had forgotten for almost two full semesters that I was not the only one who was affected by the way I treated myself. This traumatic, but enlightening occurence aided me in prioritizing what really mattered: myself.
I indeed felt accomplished on behalf of my grades, however, the extent to which I pushed myself was not worth it. How someone treats themself alters their performance; and perhaps I was self-sabotaging from the start by treating myself so poorly throughout 11th grade. I have learned revolutionary lessons: I am human, and nothing is perfect. Of course I knew nothing is perfect, even when I wore a shirt that so blatantly posed this lie. This strive for perfection was always to protect myself from this buried, inevitable truth. No soy perfecta (I’m not perfect), but I’ve learned that my effort that doesn’t require impoverishing myself is enough.
-Abigail V., Scholarship Winner
Past Winning Entries
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2020 WINNING ENTRY
“Having disabilities was not the worst part–it was, instead, the constant reminder of them that hurt the most.”
– Zach P., Scholarship Winner
Short Essay
My mother often tells me about having a growth mindset, and until last year I didn’t understand that idea. In the 4th grade, I was diagnosed with severe dyslexia, dyscalculia, and executive processing disorder. Having disabilities was not the worst part–it was, instead, the constant reminder of them that hurt the most. While my peers were in reading class, I was ushered down the hall to partake in a separate reading class. Though helpful, I couldn’t help but feel lesser to my peers. I considered others removed from the classroom as friends, although it wasn’t a pleasant feeling of knowing “they are gifted and talented.” It impacted me so that I continually felt dumb. A few years later, I was told–by someone I no longer remember–that my disabilities would “catch up to me.” That phrase resonated in my mind every time I struggled to complete a book, or misspelled a word, or had to talk to a teacher about why I couldn’t understand the question. Has it caught up?
” I decided in my freshman year that I was going to rewrite those words—allowing them to follow me created a sense of self-defeat.”
– Zach P.Eventually, the idea of a growth mindset hit. I decided in my freshman year that I was going to rewrite those words—allowing them to follow me created a sense of self-defeat. I applied for things I wanted, took the classes I needed, and empowered myself. I found it was my time to climb. I worked hard at everything I did. I haven’t always come out on top, but I have consistently come out more understanding and more knowledgeable than before. It didn’t take long to realize I had a particular interest in space and science and decided to steer into that. Soon, teachers were taking notice, as well. English teachers would allow me to write papers and give speeches about science rather than traditional subjects. History teachers would encourage me to look into scientific endeavors in the period. They played to my strengths. My parents were with me every step of the way. Though at times, I felt the berating of my work to be unruly, I recognize it was out of love and them wanting me to do everything I can to succeed. I owe everything to my teachers and my parents.
“I’ve learned to play to my abilities, advocate for myself, and work for what I want. Though it has not always been clear to me, my value is not any lesser than anyone else.”
– Zach P.Later that year, my school introduced me to a nonprofit known as Higher Orbits. They continually work to inspire students to get involved in STEM careers by hosting events and helping students to design experiments that compete to go to the International Space Station. I ended up loving it so much that I attended three of these events and pushed two of my experiments to the final round of judging. Sadly, I was never able to launch a mission, but I have since started volunteering with Higher Orbits, which has offered unbelievable opportunities for me. Through them, I applied and was accepted to an event known as the International Science School. The International Science School is a two-week-long event in Sydney, Australia, where 130 students attended 17 lectures from the top scientists in the world, visiting state-of-the-art facilities and interacting with other students from all over the world. My acceptance officially places me as a top science student in the United States.
Having learning disabilities has impacted the way I read, write, and learn, but it has not broken me. I’ve learned to play to my abilities, advocate for myself, and work for what I want. Though it has not always been clear to me, my value is not any lesser than anyone else. Through my hard work – and significant, unwavering support – I have made it to this point. I hope, with more hard work and help, I will go further.
– Zach P.
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2019 WINNING ENTRY
“At lunch, my classmates rambled on about their successful mothers and fathers who were ER nurses and neurosurgeons. I quietly listened, hoping to avoid being asked the question ‘What do your parents do for a living?'”
– Ana G., Scholarship Winner
Short Essay
Imet her a block away from my elementary school every day after school, as I had requested. I trotted towards her hefty silhouette as my classmates headed outside to be picked up by their nannies in BMWs. Once I passed the crossing guard, I knew my peers wouldn’t be around to watch me knock on the side door of my parents’ taco truck labeled Taqueria Evelyn in fluorescent letters. As the door opened forcefully due to a loose hinge, my father’s cracked, yet gentle hand firmly pulled me up the steps. I was greeted by my parents’ weary eyes and forced smiles. I slouched down in my miniature Dora the Explorer sofa placed next to the cooler as my father drove out of the neighborhood.
“My eyes opened to the sacrifices my parents were making for the prosperity of their children. There was a reason that they immigrated to America with nothing but the clothes on their backs.”
– Ana G.At lunch, my classmates rambled on about their successful mothers and fathers who were ER nurses and neurosurgeons. I quietly listened, hoping to avoid being asked the question “What do your parents do for a living?” I wondered why my parents failed to achieve similar horizons. Instead of coming home with stories of the numerous lives they have saved with a revolutionary procedure, my parents arrived with salsa verde stains on their beat-up Dickies work pants and streaks of black grease on their cheeks from cleaning the grill. As I prepared my mother’s nightly tea, she examined the fresh cuts and burns on her forearms with regret. I laid my head on her shoulder. The smell of tacos conquered her usual motherly scent of Aveeno lotion. She told me about her daily encounters with young construction workers pulled out of high school by their parents to provide for their families. “Echale ganas a la escuela, mija,” my mother said. She explained that education is the key to escape poverty.
One school morning, my mother frantically rushed into my room after receiving a phone call from the hospital. The taco truck had exploded with my father inside of it, leaving him with severe second-degree burns. When he first came home after the accident, I couldn’t recognize my own father. White blisters dominated his forearms. His swollen face struggled to convey facial expressions. I recognized the pain in his bloodshot eyes. Yet he acted as if nothing had changed. My eyes opened to the sacrifices my parents were making for the prosperity of their children. There was a reason that they immigrated to America with nothing but the clothes on their backs. There was a reason that they worked from 3 A.M. to 6 P.M. daily. There was a reason that they emphasized the importance of education. They immersed themselves in a perilous situation to financially support our family of seven. My mortification at our low-income background transformed into an appreciation for my parents’ sacrifices.
“Collectively, we will break down the cultural and language barriers that limit the capabilities of the Hispanic community. Success blossoms from hard work. This is only the beginning.”
– Ana G.My parents’ pursuit of the American dream has powered my academic drive. I refuse to follow in the footsteps of my cousins that fell under the influence of drugs and violence in Oakland, California. I made it my personal goal to strive academically to defy the negative stigma associated with Hispanics. I often found myself being the only Latina in advanced courses at my high school. I decided to tackle the root of the problem by co-founding the nonprofit organization Bilingual Help Service. Many underprivileged, Hispanic students lack a role model to instill the importance of education into their developing minds. These students witness their parents getting by without higher education and struggle to escape the rote cycle of poverty. I am fortunate to have parents that advocate for my prosperity and I now fulfill this role for several elementary and middle school students. Collectively, we will break down the cultural and language barriers that limit the capabilities of the Hispanic community. Success blossoms from hard work. This is only the beginning.
– Ana G.
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2018 WINNING ENTRY
“I do believe that the knowledge and skill of a good attorney has the potential to bring hope to dark places.”
– Anna N., Scholarship Winner
Short Essay
I’ve spent countless hours in Nashville’s juvenile court; thankfully, not as an alleged criminal. The place somehow always managed to be hot and sweaty despite the change of seasons, and the folks you’d find there were often questionable at best. “If you’re lookin’ into the dating scene, this probably ain’t the best place to start,” was how the attorney I interned for put it. The first time I went there with him, I asked for a rundown of his case as we walked through the security check. “It’s near closing,” he began. He struggled momentarily to remove his foot from his Oxfords. “Child abuse; the kid’s about seven. He’d accused the babysitter of…” His foot finally popped out and he stumbled backwards: “…touching him.” I paused, more than a little disgusted, only able to muster out a quiet “I see.” It came to me again that we were the defense. I shivered. It was then, at the beginning of my internship, that I began to wonder whether or not law was right for me – not only in the sense of the investment needed for schooling, but also in its moral implications.
“It was then, at the beginning of my internship, that I began to wonder whether or not law was right for me – not only in the sense of the investment needed for schooling, but also in its moral implications.”
– Anna N.The office itself was a small, general practice with five defense attorneys, each their own manager. The attorney I followed around the most had work that ranged from suing companies for not putting up those CAUTION: WET FLOOR signs to rather heinous crimes I’d rather not think too hard about. While we weren’t drafting motions or researching legal precedents, we’d often talk about philosophy. I asked if he always believed his clients. “The guilt’d kill me otherwise,” he said. I didn’t press him further, but I still hold some doubts about his honesty. After scouring evidence and making calls, it’s often difficult to find even a speck of credibility in some clients; those were cases solved using “legalese” loopholes to our advantage. It felt a bit under-the-rug.
The truth is a difficult thing to pin. Ideally, one would be all for using the law as a means to uncover it. However, it became apparent to me that the law’s successes came from struggle rather than some smooth course of action. For example, during one trial, I witnessed what I’d imagined only happened on television court dramas: an utterly incompetent lawyer. As I listened to the sweaty man ramble, I saw the plaintiff slowly sink. I felt something only describable as visceral pity pass over me. Even the most honest of men could enter a courtroom confidently and leave utterly defeated, given the right (or wrong) kind of defense.
“Even the most honest of men could enter a courtroom confidently and leave utterly defeated, given the right (or wrong) kind of defense.”
– Anna N.After all this, why law? I want to be the right kind of defense: the kind that people can respect for skill and fairness, and that this legal system desperately needs to thrive. Once I’m done with school, I wish to pursue a career in cyber or immigration law. It is to be expected that cyber law, as it pertains to security, will continue to evolve. In the case that I do decide to dedicate myself to immigration instead, my work would be more directly interpersonal; the fruits of my labor would be more immediately apparent. With cyber security, however, the efforts I make are more likely to ripple out as precedents for future legislation. With either path, I’d feel the contentment of knowing I’ve made a difference in the world, and that’s the key to my interest. I understand that a career path like mine tends not to be the first thing one thinks of regarding “giving back to the community,” but I do believe that the knowledge and skill of a good attorney has the potential to bring hope to dark places.
– Anna N.